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Wednesday, September 25, 2024

What Might Have Been?

Suggested Reading: Philippians 1:3-18

One of the most interesting questions to ponder is "What might have been?" Numerous stories have been told and movies made about the question. It's a Wonderful Life explores what might have been if George Bailey had never been born. The Family Man explores what might have been if a corporate CEO had made a priority of the woman he loved rather than his career. Numerous science fiction shows experiment with time travel to the past and attempt to picture what might have been if just one little thing had been different in the course of human events.

One of the reasons this theme has been so prevalent in popular fiction is the fact that people are constantly wondering "What might have been if…?" What might have been if I had majored in something different in college? What might have been if I had taken that risk rather than banking on the sure thing? What might have been if I had married someone different? What might have been if I had gotten that promotion? What might have been if I had said something when I had the chance?

Acts 25 gives us a biblical example of a "What might have been different" story.  Paul had been speaking in his own defense before Festus because he had been accused of a number of crimes against the temple and against Rome. His primary accusers had requested that Paul be sent back to Jerusalem to face the charges and Festus had asked Paul about the request. Paul, knowing that a conspiracy to kill him was probably underway, declared that he was under no obligation to go back to Jerusalem and then, as was his right as a Roman citizen, Paul appealed to Caesar, ensuring that he would be taken to Rome and not back to Jerusalem.

Festus, later, discussed Paul's case with king Agrippa, seeking his advice on writing his report to Caesar and Paul was given the chance to share his story with Agrippa. Once Agrippa heard Paul's defense, Agrippa declared, "This man could have been set free if he had not appealed to Caesar" (Acts 26:32, NIV). In the following years of imprisonment waiting for his appeal to be heard and the many hardships that accompanied those years, I am sure Paul must have wondered, "What might have been different if I had not appealed to Caesar?" Would he have been sent back to Jerusalem and killed? Would Agrippa have simply freed him, allowing him to resume his missionary work?  Would he have spent so much time in prison cells or under house arrest? How many things would have been different?

In Philippians 1:12, however, Paul discussed not what might have been but what had been, He wrote, "Now I want you to know, brothers, that what has happened to me has really served to advance the gospel" (NIV).  Paul went on to describe how his continuing imprisonment had led many of his guards to Christ and how other believers had been encouraged by his example. I'm sure Paul wondered what might have been, but his questions did not keep him from seeing what was. Paul didn't allow the missed possibilities to blind him to the ways God was moving in the present.

Have you been stuck, wondering what might have been different or what could have been better? There is nothing necessarily wrong with those questions. But don't allow them to sidetrack you from what God is doing in your life right now. Don't miss the blessings that are right in front of you because you are distracted by uncertain possibilities of what might have been. We are not given the knowledge of what might have been. All we can do is make the most of what is.

Additional Reading: Acts 25-26 

Monday, May 9, 2022

Climbing Down the Ladder of Success

Suggested Reading: Mark 1:21-39

In the Nicolas Cage movie, The Family Man, a corporate CEO is given the chance to see what his life would have been if he had made different choices. One choice was to climb the ladder of success at the cost of everything else. Having made that choice, Cage's character discovered that he missed out on much of what made life meaningful and he was willing to abandon the life of popular success for something better. The theme is a common one in movies: popularity is not the most important goal in the world and climbing the ladder of success is not all it's cracked up to be.

Long before Nicolas Cage or movies ever came around, Jesus was teaching this same lesson to his disciples. In Mark chapter 1, Jesus had just begun his ministry. Jesus had called Simon Peter, Andrew, James and John to follow him and they had abandoned everything to follow him. But rather quickly they found themselves in the center of a whirlwind of popularity. Jesus took the disciples into the large, important, regional city of Capernaum, where Simon and Andrew had a home, and Jesus began to teach in the synagogue. That very first Sabbath as Jesus was teaching, a demon-possessed man stood up in the middle of Jesus' teaching and shrieked, scared to death that Jesus had come to destroy him. Jesus cast the demon out and, presumably, went on teaching, amazing the people with his authority.

After synagogue service, Jesus and his growing band of disciples went to Simon's home where Jesus healed Simon's mother-in-law from a fever. That night, as the sun set and the Sabbath ended, the entire city showed up at Simon-Peter's door, bringing their sick and the their demon-possessed to Jesus. If I was Peter, I could easily imagine myself thinking, Wow, I've made the big time! Everyone in this important city now knew where Peter lived and had come to his home. Peter was the disciple of, as far as the author of the Gospel of Mark was concerned, the most popular man on the planet. Peter was probably awake far into the night as Jesus healed the sick and cast out the demons that were brought to him. He probably fell asleep (assuming he could sleep) thinking, I've made it.

But then Peter woke up the next morning to discover that Jesus was gone. Peter and the other disciples began a manhunt for Jesus only to find that Jesus was nowhere in the city, so they began to search the surrounding countryside. Finally, they found Jesus, praying in a remote place and they urged him to come back because everyone was looking for him. Jesus didn't respond to the fact that everyone wanted a piece of him. Instead Jesus said, "Let's go on to the neighboring villages so that I may preach there too. This is why I have come" (Mark 1:38, HCSB).  And Jesus never goes back into the city, at least not until the next time he makes the rounds.

Jesus had made the big time. Jesus was a popular teacher who commanded the attention of the people. The entire city knew who he was and what he could do. They flocked to his side. If Jesus was a pastor, his church in Capernaum would have hit mega-church status overnight. And Jesus told his disciples, "Let's go to the neighboring villages." Not cities. Villages. The phrasing in the Greek literally means the little country towns. What?

See, Jesus wanted his disciples to know early on that following him had nothing to do with being popular or having "success." Jesus wanted his disciples to know that following him meant preaching the good news to everyone who needed it, even people in little Podunk towns and villages. Jesus came into popularity very quickly and then let his disciples know that he wasn't interested in popularity or in becoming the most famous exorcist and healer in the land.

There is nothing wrong with success or popularity. But never let your mindset be one that seeks those things out. Never begin to believe that you always have to move on to "bigger" things than where you are right now. Sometimes, being like Jesus means moving from big city popularity into the little country towns and moving "backwards" on the ladder of success because "success" can be a distraction and a snare.

Is God calling you to leave your place of popularity and influence for some place seemingly small and insignificant? Are you frustrated because you seem to be "stuck" somewhere without the potential for advancement that you hoped for? Maybe Jesus is trying to teach you the same lesson he had to teach the disciples: popularity and moving up in the world are a trap. Don't get caught in it. 

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