Showing posts with label mess. Show all posts
Showing posts with label mess. Show all posts

Wednesday, March 13, 2024

Celebrating Property Damage

Suggested Reading: Mark 2:1-12

Several years ago, I was part of a church that was considering doing a Vacation Bible School for the first time after a long hiatus. But as I led the church through a discussion about VBS, I discovered a pocket of resistance. The only space in the church that was big enough to host many of the activities was our sanctuary. But while the chairs were easily removable, people began to voice concern about the carpet. More than once I heard concerns that we might mess up the carpet for a whole year for the activities of a few days and that such a thing simply wasn't good stewardship. In the end, sadly, that church did not host a VBS that year.

When Jesus began his ministry and called the first disciples, he seemed to base his ministry out of Simon Peter's house in Capernaum. After a tour ministering in the smaller villages of the area, Jesus returned to Capernaum and picked up his ministry right where it had left off, healing people and casting out demons from Peter's living room. On one occasion, when the house was so crowded that no one could get in or out, four men arrived carrying a paralyzed man on a mat. They couldn't bring him to Jesus because of the crowd, so they dug a hole through the roof above his head. Then they lowered the man on his mat, right down in front of Jesus (Mark 2:3-4, NLT). Jesus forgave the man's sin and then healed him so that he could pick up his mat and walk out under his own power. But what I find odd is that no mention is made of Peter's reaction to having a hole dug in his roof.

Sometimes ministry gets messy. Sometimes it costs us money or means we have a mess to clean up. Sometimes, bringing someone to Jesus means that more work is created for us, that we have someone else who needs to be discipled, someone else who needs instruction and encouragement. Sometimes ministry means we have more mouths to feed or that our worship times are disrupted by people who have never been in church before and don't know how to behave. Sometimes ministry means that people are so excited and enthusiastic that they get carried away and we have to deal with the consequences.

When we find ourselves in the midst of messy ministry, are we willing to look past the mess and rejoice that someone is being brought to Jesus? Are we willing to put up with extra work and repair the property damage because it means someone's life has been changed by a relationship with Christ? Are we willing to be inconvenienced or spend some money we could have personally used elsewhere in order to meet a need in someone's life? Or is the carpet too important? Is the possibility of a stain or that hole in the roof so daunting it overwhelms the possibility of someone coming to Christ? If Peter could deal with a hole in his roof without making a fuss, couldn't we handle a little mess of our own?

Tuesday, October 24, 2023

Embracing the Muck

Suggested Reading: Proverbs 14:1-11

I am something of a contradiction when it comes to my work spaces. When I am working, I tend to make messes. If you have ever seen my desk when I am in the middle of a ton of research for a sermon or a paper or story, I often have papers and books strewn everywhere, covering every inch of desk space available. At the same time, however, I have to have my work space clean when I start something. So, even though the surface of my desk will become invisible once I get started, I have to get it clean before I can start working. Proverbs 14:4 talks about the kinds of messes that can accompany work from the flip-side of the coin. "Where there are no oxen, the feeding trough is clean, but an abundant harvest is produced by strong oxen" (NET). Translation: oxen are messy but they make it possible to be very productive.

A number of years ago, I served as a houseparent at a children's home in New Mexico that had a small farm/ranch attached to it. One of our responsibilities (and the youth's responsibilities) was to clean out the horse stalls, at least once a week but more often if required, and it was often required. The kids loved the horses, especially when it came time to ride them, but they absolutely abhorred cleaning out the stalls. If they wanted to avoid having to clean out a stall, then they simply chose not to care for a horse but that meant they didn't have a horse to ride.

Sometimes, getting things done in life requires a mess. Sometimes, that mess is literal: books and papers piled high on a desk, or a stall full of manure, or a kitchen stacked with dirty dishes and flour dusted counter-tops. And, if possible, I'm sure we would all like to avoid such messes. But messes are a by-product of productive living. If you never make a mess, you probably never get anything done.  Another way of saying that is, if you're only worried about keeping things nice and neat and uncomplicated, you probably won't accomplish much. Life is messy. Stuff happens. The only way to avoid messes for certain is to avoid doing anything of significance.

So what about you? Do you feel like your life is a mess? Or wish your house was always spic and span? Me too. But life isn't about staying neat and clean. In fact, having everything neat and in order and insisting that it stay that way is a good formula for a boring and insignificant life. If your life is messy, it is because things are happening! Yes, it's a good idea to clean up the messes from time to time. Yes, it's a good idea to take a break every now and then to get things in order, but mess happens. Don't let the fear of mess rule your life or nothing will ever get done.

Messes are a part of life. Don't try to avoid them. Balance your messes with what you are trying to accomplish. 

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