How Bold Is Bold Enough?

Suggested Reading: Ephesians 6:10-20

Paul, in my opinion is one of the most dynamic characters in Scripture. From requesting letters to arrest Christians to becoming one of Jesus' greatest advocates, Paul was never known for being shy and reserved. Paul stood before rioting mobs and defended both himself and the Gospel. He publicly called Peter on the carpet when he was in the wrong. He endured beatings, stonings, shipwrecks, and prison, and he never seemed to waver from his calling to preach the Gospel. He seemed unstoppable. Which is why Ephesians 6:19-20 stands out for me.

Paul writes, "Pray also for me, that the message may be given to me when I open my mouth to make known with boldness the mystery of the Gospel. For this I am an ambassador in chains. Pray that I might be bold enough in Him to speak as I should" (HSCB).

I don't know all of the reasons why Paul felt the need to pray for boldness. Maybe he didn't feel bold. Maybe Paul was anticipating some of the trials he was about to face and was worried about losing his nerve. Maybe he was worried that he would succumb to the temptation to water down the message for his own safety (Paul had been shipped out of town on, at least, four different occasions by other believers trying to keep him alive).   Maybe Paul didn't take his boldness for granted. Maybe Paul was constantly aware of all of the places he could have been bolder.  Or maybe Paul knew that his boldness for Christ came from the Holy Spirit in response to prayer.

What I do know is that, if Paul could request prayers for boldness to preach the message effectively, that we should as well. Maybe if we prayed to be effective and bold we actually would be. Maybe if we prayed with Paul for boldness and a clear message we could stand with him, pressing on toward the prize, rather than just wishing we were like him. 

So, I ask you to pray with me that the message may be given to me when I open my mouth to make known with boldness the mystery of the Gospel, that I may live as an ambassador for Christ, being bold enough in Him to speak as I should. And if you want, I'll pray the same with you. 

Entertaining Fortune Cookies

Suggested Reading: Lamentations 2:8-14

Many children's favorite part of Chinese food is getting the fortune cookie at the end of the meal. But fortune cookies and I have always had a love/hate relationship because you never know what kind of "fortune" you are going to get. Some fortunes are ambitious and attempt to predict life-changes like "You will soon have an opportunity to change your life, don't let it pass you by." Those fortunes are an attempt to tell the future by reminding us of things we should already know, but they at least put on the pretense of giving a fortune. Others, I feel, are much less entertaining because they say something like, "No one wants to be friends with a grumpy person." The fortune cookies in this second category are probably much more useful but those aren't the ones that I want to get. I want the fortune cookies that entertain me, not the ones that tell me some useful principle that I should already be living by.

The author of the book of Lamentations described a similar phenomenon in the visions and prophecies during the time of the downfall and eventual destruction of Jerusalem.  Lamentations 2:14 reads, "The visions of your prophets were false and worthless; they did not expose your sin to ward off your captivity. The oracles they gave you were false and misleading" (NIV).

In several places throughout the writings of the Old Testament prophets, God condemns both the people and the popular prophets of the time because they were of no value to the people. Many prophets cried, "Peace! Peace!" (Jeremiah 6:14, Ezekiel 13:10) when there was no peace simply because the people wanted to hear it. They falsely assured them that Jerusalem was secure and invincible because God's temple existed there. They gave messages that made the people feel good about themselves, that would keep people coming back for more. The author of Lamentations pointed out those false prophets as part of the problem; they were entertaining but they were useless.

The temptation to pick and choose what we listen to based on what entertains us or makes us feel good still exists today, even in our churches. We want people who encourage us and inspire us and motivate us, but we don't want people to point out our sin. We want people to say that our selfish lifestyles and bad decisions are okay and we don't want anyone to "judge" us by saying that certain things (which we happen to do) are wrong.  We want our preachers, teachers, and friends to "mind their own business" and give us some generic teaching that doesn't intersect with our lives at all, rather than hear a useful truth that might ward off disaster. But if we have any hope of moving forward in our relationships with God, if we have any hope of maturing spiritually, we need those teachers and friends who are bold enough to tell us in love, "This is wrong and it will lead you to a very bad place." We need those people who care more about our welfare than our approval. And every day we make the choice of which kind of people we keep in our lives.

What kind of teachers and friends have you surrounded yourself with? Are they entertaining fortune cookies, which do you no good? Or are they people who are brave enough and loving enough to expose sin and ward off disaster? I'm not always sure which kind I want in my life, but I certainly know which kind I need.